Category Archives: aging

Home alone.

The lid came off the other day. Like a loosened champagne cork, loudly and with gusto. My friend was about to go home but first wanted to use the loo. She called out to me that she couldn’t get in … Continue reading

Posted in accidents, aging | Tagged | Leave a comment

When I grow too old to dream.

In another lifetime I am maybe four years old. My brother and I are staying with our aunt and uncle on the other side of the city in the house between the railway station and the big park. It must … Continue reading

Posted in aging, health, unemployed | Tagged , | Leave a comment

When P was for Parkinson’s Disease.

My mother was in a right state when we arrived at visiting time. That young doctor – what did he know about anything? – had asked her, with no warning and from the end of the bed, how her Parkinson’s … Continue reading

Posted in aging, family, health | Tagged | 2 Comments

Becoming someone else.

During dinner, my friend turned to me and asked, “So what’s on your agenda for this year? What have you got planned?” Clang! I hesitated and then I filled the space left for me with words that made sentences but … Continue reading

Posted in aging, unemployed | Leave a comment

Uncles.

When my daughter finished school and was accepted into university, one of my uncles – the middle one – phoned with his congratulations. The university had been the only one in the state when he was a lad, and although … Continue reading

Posted in aging, family | Tagged , | Leave a comment

Ploughing.

Once upon a time, and for a long time, I lived in a village. For a lesser, but also long time, I worked there. It was a proper village, too, plopped down in the countryside, with spires on the hill … Continue reading

Posted in aging, friendship | Tagged , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

We grow old, we grow old.

Someone took some photos at a dinner I was at. I saw the photos and the ones that I was in. I looked again and I thought, I look so old. I am so old, of course, but I am … Continue reading

Posted in aging | Tagged , , , , | 4 Comments